Showing posts with label Mug Rugs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mug Rugs. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 1, 2025

Mug Rugs

 

Mug Rugs.

Fill your cup or at least have something to put it on!



I want to invite you to take a deep breath with me.

Right here, right now. Let your shoulders drop. Let the world slow down, just a little.

Because today, I want to talk about something we often forget to give ourselves — self-care. Not the kind we give to others — we’re wonderful at that. Quilters are natural givers. We wrap babies in love, send comfort through stitches to grieving families, and create heirlooms that whisper, “You are cherished.”

But what about you?

What about the woman or man behind the needle?

That’s where the mug rug comes in.



Yes — the humble mug rug. Small. Quiet. Often made from scraps. Just big enough for a warm cup and a cookie. Not flashy. Not fussy. But full of heart.

To me, a mug rug is a little quilt with a big message — and that message is:


You matter, too.

A Moment to Pause



In a world that moves fast, where schedules overflow and perfection is praised, self-care can feel indulgent — even selfish. But let’s be clear:

Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s sacred.

Self-care is choosing to stop — even for five minutes — and sip your tea slowly. It’s noticing how soft the fabric feels beneath your fingers. It’s letting your hands create something beautiful, not because you have to, but because you want to.

And sometimes, it’s just sitting in silence with a mug rug under your favorite cup and letting yourself be.



Quilting as a Love Language

You see, quilting and self-care aren't separate ideas. They’re woven together, just like the threads in our work. Quilting teaches us patience, forgiveness (hello, seam ripper), and the value of progress over perfection.

Even when life feels messy, when the seams don’t line up, or when the colors don’t match the plan — we keep stitching. That’s resilience. That’s healing. That’s hope.

And isn’t that what self-care is?
Showing up for yourself with grace, not guilt.

So, here’s my invitation to you today:

Let’s make a mug rug just for you.



Not for a gift. Not for a sale. But for you.


Let it live on your table, or beside your sewing machine. Let it remind you every day that you deserve warmth, softness, and joy — just as much as anyone else.

Let it be a symbol of balance.
A boundary in fabric form that says,
"This space, this cup of tea, this moment — is mine."




In the end, a mug rug won’t fix everything. But it can be a tiny reminder that we are more than what we do for others — we are worthy of the same love we so freely give.

So let’s care for ourselves, one small square at a time.



Let’s quilt our way home — to ourselves.

Tuesday, September 10, 2024

Come Fly Away with Me.

 

Up Up and Away




Recently, I attended a foundation paper-piecing class at my local quilt store, Boxer Craft House. Our project was a Hot Air Balloon. This was an interesting process because you stitch fabric pieces to a foundation paper with the marked side of the paper facing up and the fabric pieces layered underneath. The resulting pieced units will be mirror images of foundation papers. It is almost forcing you to have a different perspective. 


Much like a Hot Air Balloon, your perspective changes when one has distance. 


Really Happy with my pillow and mug rugs that I made.

Did you know that Hot Air Balloons are actually very difficult to fly. You cannot steer a hot air balloon. The balloon follows the path of the wind and you must go along for the ride. All that you can control is going up or down! Geez, this is life! We can only control how we react, not the wind or others! 

And just a change in fabric is a different perspective.


There is so much we cannot control in life. Like a hot air balloon, we cannot control the direction of the wind and if we struggle against it, we will only waste our energy. When we allow ourself to accept the current situation, we may notice the things around us in a different way.


Yep, even I need to be uplifted when writing a difficult journal!


 Brianna Z. Kauer, M.S., BCBA states this best, “When we are flying low to the ground, everything seems large and appears to be moving quickly. When you are flying high in the air, everything seems small and appears to be moving slowly. We can’t control which direction the wind blows us, but we can choose to rise above the struggles of the day to see them from a distance. When we create distance from our negative thoughts or feelings, they don’t seem so big; mountains become foothills, houses become toys, people become ants.”




No matter what’s happening in our lives, we always have the potential to rise above, accept the current situation, and adjust those inner burners (our emotional and physical reaction). Moreover, we have the choice to rise out of our negative thoughts, our limiting beliefs, and our comfort zone. What a great “life lesson project” and a great reminder for myself. I hope this post lifts you up and inspires you for the ride of a lifetime.